New Year's Resolution: See More Theater by Wil Triggs

In the land of Narnia, at the beginning of the Chronicles, the creatures and the land faced a situation described as always winter, but never Christmas. A cold and dark world it was.
 
But what about when it’s winter and then it’s Christmas and then it’s . . . what?
 
When I was a kid, the week after Christmas and before New Year’s was pretty great. No school, new toys, flannel pajamas, fudge and See’s candy and other good foods lingering from Christmas.
 
All seemed well. People headed home for where they gathered with family and friends. It might have been across town or across the country or even some other part of the world. The newborn King was safe and sound in the manger. The family goes back to Nazareth, and everybody lives happily ever after. For us, New Year’s follows Christmas. The tree comes down. We pack up our ornaments and lights and put them in the basement or the garage for another year. Think football games, and parades and finger foods. Life begins again with resolutions and resolves to live a better life in the year to come than in the year just ended.
 
But after Christmas in the Gospels, that’s not the way it worked out.
 
The Magi had told Herod of the good news of the birth from the line of David, and he encouraged them on their way. Eventually the Magi show up with their gifts—that’s where the 12 days of Christmas come from, so they got to see Jesus. I think it probably took them a lot longer than 12 days. Afterwards, the dreams and warnings came, and they opted to avoid the Herod expressway and take back roads back home for fear of Herod’s wrath.
 
They weren’t the only ones with a king-sized problem. Mary and Joseph didn’t just leave Bethlehem and head home to Nazareth like I imagined. Instead, Herod began killing babies to make sure his reign was safe from whatever kind of king he feared had come. Instead of going back to their home, Joseph, Mary and Jesus opted to go to Egypt. Mothers started to wail tears of grief. It was brutal. Did Herod think he had succeeded in killing Jesus when all those boys died?
 
The people who lost their sons, grandsons, nephews, is it any wonder that they were looking for some kind of release from the rule under which they lived? I’m sure that kind of grief didn’t just fade away. The government could do anything it wanted to them and did.
 
The brutal tyranny of man at war with the humble way of God’s love. In hymn speak, “This is My Father’s World” was having a little tussle with “This World is Not My Home.” Roman rule did not just go away. But there is a different world at work. Then and now, and not only the present and the past, but also future.
 
In his book The Heart in Pilgrimage, in the chapter “The World as Theater of God’s Glory,” Lee Ryken writes of John Calvin and the wonders of the created world. “God’s glory is on display,” he writes. “We are spectators of it. It is in the nature of a theatrical performance that a dynamic interaction exists between the audience and the performers.”
 
This is a celebration of faith observing the natural world and all its creative wonder. But I can’t help but misapply it. First to see more theater and more nature in 2023 and second to think of Calvin’s words not in relation to the natural world, but the fallen world and its connection or disconnection to the world to come. As things seem to be in decline, we know who will prevail and rule and make new. This is the ultimate theater where Satan is vanquished and a new acts begins.
 
I can see Nigerian people of the church emerging from their hiding places in the bush to go back to their villages, the church that was burned down in Nigeria rebuilt, and I can hear the beautiful African voices singing of the love better than all other loves combined.
 
The Christian man in another country whose work partners were martyred finding new office space in a different town, working with them together on a new project, a magazine celebrating the peace of God in every language of the universe.
 
The men who used to kidnap, torture, even kill, now serving those they once held captive, their eyes open to the loving and forgiving God who became the object of their repentance and worship. There they sit, side by side, in joy and fraternal fellowship.
 
The lion lies down with the lamb. Happy new year.

A Christmas Heretic by Lorraine Triggs

Fairly confident that our choice of preschool for our four-year-old would never appear on his résumé, we landed on the park district preschool. Our choice was bolstered by the teachers, Miss Jan and Miss Karen, who were friends from church. We knew he would be in good hands.

As Christmas came, Jan and Karen invited me to talk to the children about one of our Christmas traditions—one that was especially meaningful to our family. I got the hint. As park district employees, Miss Jan and Miss Karen had to exercise caution in what they said. As a parent, I could throw caution to the wind, and I did, packing up our Nativity set to show the children.

Our crèche was beautiful and to scale—five inches to be exact, with Mary, Joseph, the baby in the manger, a shepherd, two lambs and an angel hanging above the serene scene. At one point, we purchased a shepherdess carrying a lamb. Unfortunately, she was 7.5 inches tall and loomed large over the Holy Family, so she didn’t come to preschool with me that afternoon.

As I pulled out the Nativity set, piece by piece, I asked the children if they knew what each figure was. Fortunately, I had “plants” in the audience—my son and another four-year-old from College Church, who were eager to tell their clueless friends who was who.

Once the scene was set, I asked the children what they liked best about Christmas. Presents. Cookies. Candy Canes. Presents. Santa. Christmas trees. Presents. Even my plants got caught up in the frenzy. When things calmed down, I said, “Did you know that we don’t need any of that stuff to have Christmas?”

Silence as 15 or so sweet faces looked at the heretic in their midst. I quickly assured them that I love all that about Christmas, but Christmas would still come even if we didn’t have presents or Santa or Christmas trees. As I talked, I removed all the pieces except for Baby Jesus, and said, “Christmas comes because of Jesus, the newborn king. We only need him.”

Christmas comes with attachments for most of us. We ask, “How are your Christmas plans coming?” or “Are you done shopping for everyone on your list?” or “Are you traveling for Christmas?” Christmas cards are cheerful recaps of accomplishments. And I won’t even mention the Christmas posts.

We know we don’t need any of that stuff to celebrate Christmas, but it’s hard to let it go. It’s hard not to fill December with, well, with everything Christmas.

The shepherds in the fields that night didn't have any plans other than watching their sheep. Mary and Joseph's travel plans went awry, and they couldn't get a room. The only ones who brought presents were still traveling. Yet they had everything and then some because the Savior, the Christ, had been born.

Jesus, the one who emptied himself and was born in the likeness of men, filled the empty ones with grace and truth and living water. He didn’t come for those who were already filled, mostly with themselves. He came to the humble, the poor in spirit, the lost, the sick, and perhaps to an awkward shepherdess, who took a few steps closer to the baby as his mother and father made room for her and her lamb around that baby’s manger.

Foot Pain by Wil Triggs

When a person walks through a day, his feet get dirty. It doesn’t matter. Shoes or no shoes. Walking through the day. It just happens. Dirt gets on our feet.
 
We don’t walk nearly as much as people used to. We have cars. If you don't have a car, there’s always public transportation. Uber. That kind of thing. Or you can always get a ride from a neighbor or co-worker. People are nice that way.
 
And then there's work. Think about people in the service industry. They have it hard. They’re on their feet all day.
 
At a restaurant, servers bring you your breakfast. Eggs and meat, your choice. Potatoes and toast. Butter and jam on the side. Or the gluten-free alternatives. Would you like a refill on that coffee? All the time on their feet.
 
You go into a store. You don’t think about it, but those people are standing up and walking around all day long. They go through the produce that comes off the trucks. They get rid of the overripe avocadoes, and line all the other ones just right, to be sure they look magically boxed up on display so you can get a good look at them and make the best choice for you. And when the avocadoes are finished, these workers move to another box just off the truck. The nicely arranged apples or pears are no accident, all of them the handiwork of someone working while on his feet.
 
The woman in the food truck not only has to stand, but also has restricted movement—just a few feet to move from window to grill and back for hours. All the while, standing. Standing on her feet.
 
I never really thought much about my feet until my right foot began to hurt. People noticed. “Why are you walking like that?” was a question I heard a lot. The doctor gave me the answer: I haveplantar fasciitisin my right foot. Standing isn’t the problem, putting weight on the foot is where the pain comes. I’ve become familiar with insets and exercises to ease the pain. When I’ve mentioned this to others, I’ve been surprised how many other people are in the same place or have recovered from this malady.
 
But even if we have no foot issues, it is a good thing to finally get home and take off our shoes and put on slippers or thick wool socks.
 
A friend of mine from college used to wash his feet every night. He said he couldn’t stand the smell otherwise. He was a big guy who could easily put each foot into one of the dorm bathroom sinks and would stand there carefully washing them with Ivory soap - every toe, top and bottom, ankles too. He faithfully did this every night.
 
The footcare industry offers us salves, softeners and soothers to help with our feet once we get home and take off our shoes.

In Jesus’s time, foot washing was a normal part of culture. How much more dirty would feet have gotten when Jesus walked through a day like we do.

Unless you work in podiatry or shoe sales, you probably don’t spend much time looking at your or anyone else’s feet. I’m thinking more about feet because of my own foot pain, but as it gets better I’ll soon stop thinking about them.
 
Yes, Jesus washed the feet of his disciples, but for now I’m thinking about the feet of Jesus and pain.
 
How many tears does it take to wash a person’s feet?
 
Consider a tear, not that much water in one or two. The woman who used her own tears to wash Jesus' feet had to have had quite a cry. There was no towel but her hair, no soap but the tears that fell from her eyes. It had to have been a lot of tears.
 
Psalm 56:8 says “You keep track of all my sorrows. You have collected all my tears in your bottle. You have recorded each one in your book.”
 
When her sorrows collided with the feet of the man of sorrows, God noticed every one. It’s true, too, for the tears we shed.
 
When we stand and walk, our feet take our full weight on themselves. But those two feet, the ones the woman cleaned with her own tears, they took the weight not only of Jesus, but the immense weight of all our sins, as he walked to and then was nailed to the cross.
 
I know the tears the woman shed were nothing compared with the blood that Jesus shed, but there is a connection, our tears and his, his feet and ours.
 
We don’t usually pay much attention to feet, with the exception of the feet of newborns. We marvel at the details, so small and perfectly shaped and new. Those two newborn incarnated feet found rest in swaddling cloths bound up in the manger of Bethlehem, coming to walk this earth for us, he walked into the wilderness, walking on mount and valley and water, then wrapped in the herbs of grief, rising to walk anew in the garden and on the road and by the sea, now sitting at the throne of heaven.

An Advent Prayer from Wendell C. Hawley

This prayer is from A Pastor Prays for His People by Wendell C. Hawley.

God of glory, God of light,
God of involvement in our predicament,
we praise you for your invasion into this fallen world—
this place of deep darkness,
this place of inexcusable rejection and unbelief.
You came, and you were not welcomed.
But the darkness can never extinguish the Light!
Praise your mighty name.
The light of the gospel has penetrated our darkened minds.
And now we see with holy appreciation some things surrounding your incarnation.
Father God, we see your presence overshadowing
the arrival of the wise men to worship Jesus.
We see your presence with the angelic chorus,
in the joyful shepherds,
in the contemplative parents,
in the beautiful baby.
But it is difficult to imagine your overshadowing presence in the soldiers’ appearance at Bethlehem.
It is in the midst of tragedy, pain, and heartache that we imagine you are absent.
This is really self-centeredness, shortsightedness,
to think that you don’t care—
that you have left us in the tough spots of life.
Isaiah makes it clear: the promised Savior will
bind up the brokenhearted,
comfort those who mourn,
give a crown of beauty for ashes
give the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness.
That is your promise for each of us today.
Help us to grasp it,
appreciate it,
be changed by it,
praise God for it.
We do praise you that what you have promised you have fulfilled.
Thank you, Father, gracious Savior, blessed Holy Spirit.

Tis the Season by Lorraine Triggs

Old Possum’s Book of Practical Cats and “The Journey of the Magi” by T.S. Eliot are favorites of mine. Once I discovered the later poem, especially in my college and early 20 years, every Christmas I would read and re-read it to roommates, friends, co-workers and one longsuffering mom.

My husband has the same love for Eliot’s works and would go to a small public library across the street from Biola University where he was a student to check out cassette tapes of the poet reading his "Four Quartets" over and over.

This Christmas, “The Journey of the Magi” captures some of the feelings perhaps hiding among all the merry and bright of the season.

A cold coming we had of it,
Just the worst time of the year
For a journey, and such a long journey:
The ways deep and the weather sharp,
The very dead of winter.

This was not written by one of the three kings from orient far, but by an exhausted Magi worn out and unsure of where this journey was headed. Like me. My husband and I have been in a long season of an unanswered prayer that, if I were in charge, would have been answered a long time ago. And friends of ours are experiencing what seems like unanswered prayers bigger than ours--war in Ukraine, persecution in Nigeria, the untimely death of a too-young daughter. What has happened to that Kindergarten Mom from years ago whose husband came from China to study at Wheaton Graduate School and moved back to China?

Is God hearing prayer? Why doesn't. he answer in our timeframes? Why do we have to light four candles before we get to the Christ candle?

I wonder if Zechariah and Elizabeth thought the same thing. Luke 1:6 describes both as “righteous before God, walking blamelessly in all the commandments and statues of the Lord,” and then the blunt, language of verse seven: “But they had no child, because Elizabeth was barren, and both were in advanced in years.”  They couldn't blame themselves for something they had done or left undone. Their prayer was unanswered.

Righteous, blameless, barren Elizabeth was in a long season of unanswered prayer when the angel appeared not to her, but to Zechariah, announcing that their prayer had been heard. And righteous, blameless Zachariah points out his and Elizabeth’s advanced years again. Wasn’t it folly to think that they would be parents now, in their advanced years? And even in his question, was there impatience, doubt, wondering about the journey?

Eliot’s Magi thought similar things.

A hard time we had of it.
At the end we preferred to travel all night,
Sleeping in snatches,
With the voices singing in our ears, saying
That this was all folly.

In seasons of unanswered prayer, in times of waiting, it’s tempting to think it’s all folly. I should just stop praying but stopping would be putting myself in charge again. I obviously know God’s going to answer. Maybe he already ihas. Why think otherwise? It makes sense to me that Zechariah asked the angel, “How shall I know this?” From his perspective, the prayer had already been answered with a no, not even a maybe so, just no. He was mistaken. God was working far beyond his prayer requests.

From the angel Gabriel’s perspective, however, the understandable human question made no sense at all. The prayer was about to be answered, the long anticipated promised about to be fulfilled, and it left Zechariah speechless, and rightly so. God’s answers to our prayers ought to leave us speechless because he is “able to do far more abundantly than all that we ask or think” (Ephesians 3:20). It is now tongue-loosed Zechariah who speaks of tender mercy, forgiveness of sins, light to those who sit in darkness and in the shadow of death.

This Advent, I celebrate a season of prayer, answered, unanswered, about to be answered. I have speech still, words to speak, to name names, to sing my own song of the wonder of the second candle lit.

Christmas Tree House by Wil Triggs

Going to a farm or a mountain to cut down a Christmas tree belies the tricks of human perception. A tree that looks majestic and just right while it’s firmly planted into the ground outdoors, once chopped and transported back to the home, is transformed into something altogether different. Trying to carry it into the house on its side, like a hide-a-bed or a casket, the tree is suddenly too wide, needs to be trimmed to even it out; that one branch will have to be cut off or hidden somehow. The sap we never noticed seems to be everywhere, oozing and sticking to my hand with every grasp.

It is fresh, the fresh-cut aroma filling the air, but it takes up so much space in the room that seemed more than adequate before; now suddenly, it becomes one where we think of raising the ceiling or bumping the room out into the porch outside, or at least expanding the window into a bay.

Taming the tree, getting it trimmed down and put up and then decorated and lit, is so much harder than I thought, than I imagined it to be. But it’s a tradition we enjoy every year. We make it work.

Christmas is when people try to bring God into the house, too. Like the tree, a concept to be tamed, adapted, trimmed, made to fit into the homes we’ve made, and perhaps we want to give gifts to others to express our love, however mixed with a sense of obligation.

But for many, it is only for a season, and then, when the season is over, we unplug everything and drag it out to the curb for the trash. Lights we enjoy for the season and then, gone. Back to real life.

With God, the real God, there is no in season or out of season, and no obligation to suit us.

How much more wild is God than this tree at Christmas. Maker, Creator, the One audaciously being born in a place for animals, close to the wilds, outside the cozy inn. There’s no fitting him, really, into a home, no chopping him down to size or strapping him to the top of a car. Nevertheless, we marshal on.

Then, without much warning, suddenly it seems, we’re not bringing God into our house; instead, he’s going crazy to bring us into a different house, one we don’t own or even know. All the work we’ve done to make things seem warm and welcoming, all the money we’ve spent on lights and ornaments and food, all the gifts, fall away, because there’s something else going on, something we cannot see. The dawning realization comes that our home is not our home.

We hang our Christmas art on the walls of home. The winter Grandma Moses print, a winter village full of activity, a red frame I did myself a while back, the nail and picture hanger positioned just right so it hangs evenly above our couch. There’s the painting we first saw on our honeymoon. A crippled man on the ground, his crutch cast aside as he prays in front of  a wooden cross planted in the snowy ground. In the shadows of the horizon, if you look, you can see the church emerging from the painted mists.

We drink warm spicy cider and look out at the snow falling magically, the twinkling icicles from gutters shining. Time to make our ice cream sauce to give away.

From the manger to the garden, it’s different for him. There’s no room for the newborn, no place for him to lay his head, no dwelling to call his home.

Jesus drinks from a different cup, so different that he asks not to drink it. But drink he does, and then stretches out his arms, open-palmed and rests them on the tree, braced to receive the nails.

And the wild treehouses of heaven, nestled along the singing river of life, places we’ve never seen, music we’ve never heard, doors with wreaths on them made from thorny dry branches woven round like crowns with bells and the handwritten parchment greeting: welcome.

Show and Tell by Sherry Kwan

I woke up to the sound of gusty wind constantly rubbing shoulders with the tree branches outside my bedroom windows and knew that this Saturday morning was destined to be nostalgic. Not quite fully awake, I surveyed the dancing branches through sleepy eyes. The wind roared, pushed and shook the branches with unseen hands. Leaves flew down with no goodbyes. Just rushing down and twirling around in the air.  
 
We know God speaks through nature, and his voice was rather loud and thick that morning. And I felt his presence as if I were wrapped by a warm blanket of heaven.
 
Our Midwest fall has been a display of colorful leaves. Red. Orange. Yellow. Even in November, some leaves are still stubbornly green as if holding onto summer’s romance. It is all good. The leaves coordinate among themselves. They subtly and joyfully display the harmony of creation.
 
How can I not think of God when driving or walking on the streets in the fall? The mornings, the afternoons and the evenings—overwhelmed by the beauty of the season, I hear nature eagerly telling the story of God, the Creator and the Sustainer of the season.
 
Yes, telling God’s story! I love the fact that God speaks, and that he tells us his heart desires, his thoughts and his works on the pages of Scripture, black and white. I think He does the same today through his careful and thoughtful creation. He tells me that he is the Lord when my whole being is nourished by multi-colored tree leaves. He tells me that he is the Lord when I think of that windy Saturday morning.
 
So, what do I do?  How can I show and tell my devotion and love for God?
 
I wrote this poem as I watched a fall sunset the other day as my response to God.

Jesus in the Sunset

Jesus, are you the red and orange sunset?
Your love made me cry.
 
How I am a traveler,
On the road,
I meet people,
I am passing by.
 
Would you stay with me for a moment or two?
You are my true delight!
I long to be with you,
I am desperate for your gentle presence,
Sit with me for a while, dear Lord,
In the lounge of my soul,
In this undying sunset vibe.
 
Lingering in my deep thoughts,
You are my resting lullaby.
I love you, Jesus!
Would you make this moment an eternal one?
With joy and satisfaction,
You alone are my Savior, Divine.
 
May I honor you like this fall-season sunset?
Quietly serving behind colorful leaves-
Like in the symphony of Nature,
singing your praises in silence,
Before darker brushes come to paint the night sky. 
 
Oh, Jesus,
I see you in this sunset.

 
The leaves are now almost gone. Winter smiles. She puts on her thicker jacket, excited to show up. And for me as fall gives way to winter, I shall look for signs of God as he continues to speak to me. All I see and hear demand my response to my loving God.
 
The heavens declare the glory of God; The skies proclaim the work of his hands. Day after day they pour forth speech; Night after night they reveal knowledge. Psalms 19: 1-2
 
Amen.

Yes and No by Karis Rigby

When I look back on my life, I often think that’s not how I would have written my story. First, I’m not sure I would have had the imagination to create some of the flourishes of the story I’ve experienced. Second, I certainly would not have written the lows as low as they have gone, which conversely, allowed the highs to be higher in my life as well.

As I write this, I am in Italy, where Stephen and I were seven years ago on holiday, waiting for test results to find out if we would be able to have our own children. Nine years ago, we had our first miscarriage, followed by two more within nine months and in total I would have six in our journey to date. Somewhere in those first nine months we realized this wasn’t a detour on the life trajectory we expected, but a totally new direction. Not just in parenthood, but in who we are and what we do today. Suffering often presents that choice. We have a chance to say yes or no to what is being written in our story and often that impacts how the story unfolds. Let’s be honest, it rarely feels as simple as that.

When I think of saying yes to what God has written, my mind easily goes to the momentous and exciting things we have said yes to: Stephen saying “yes” to football ministry in Kenya and me saying yes to a post-college internship in Kenya, us saying “yes” to a group hike on Mt Kenya that laid a foundation of friendship, me saying “yes” to Stephen in April 2010, leading to the “I do” yes in 2011! And a yes to continuing in life in ministry in Kenya.

But that’s only half of it, right? There are nos for every yes -Stephen said no to stateside soccer when he chose Kenya. We had to say no to living close to family as we follow God’s call in our lives in Kenya. And then sometimes God says no to what we thought should be a yes. Betrayal from a friend or trusted colleague, illness that persists or tragedy that results in death, or for us, no for a while to starting a family.

What do we do when God says no? Well, I will tell you what I did, I said NO! right back. After five miscarriages God had gone beyond what I felt I could bear, and I realised I had a line in the sand that I felt he was crossing. I didn’t sign up for this - to carry little babies but never meet any of them. If that was God’s will, I just couldn’t authentically pray “Your will be done.”

Truth be told, I probably prayed, “Your will be done, as long as it’s in alignment with mine or a significant upgrade.” As I look back I see how, in so many ways, my heart was screaming “no!” But, by the goodness of God, I see one important yes I said in that time - and that was to God. I turned to him with all my nos and he said “Yes. Come to me.” When I told him I couldn’t pray the most basic prayer, he said, “I know. Just bring that to me.” I found my feet resting again on the firm foundation of the reality of Christ’s love that has nothing to do with my capability and everything to do with his consistency.

The more I tether myself to his steadfastness, the more I can weather the hard nos and yeses better. I am neither immune to pain nor above disappointment, but I cling to what I know to be true. God is not surprised, he is at work, he is gracious and kind and he sees me. He isn’t scheming or messing around with his children. He allows trials and tests and disciplines those he loves -exposing what otherwise might remain under the surface and undealt with.

When I told God about my line in the sand, he was neither surprised nor angry. I heard him say, “I know. Just come to me with it.” “It” was my inability to change my own heart and “it” was being honest that I wanted children of my own and didn’t know how to not want that. “It” was that I had no problem believing that God is sovereign -which was why it was so complicated and personal, he had made me to long to be a mother and was withholding it from me. I couldn’t feign peace about it, and Jesus told me I didn’t have to - I just needed to come to him with the mess that was my heart and hurt, and short-sighted vision for my life. So, I came as I was, knowing that in his timing he would do the necessary work to get me to where I needed to be.

So many things were shaken up for us in that season, Pandora's box opened and the list of our questions grew. And when we were given the gift of Abigail, our firstborn, questions remained but a shift in my heart had forever taken place. We live in a more raw space than we used to, keenly aware of other people’s suffering, realising that it isn’t an inconvenience or hurdle to get over as soon as possible, but often a trajectory changing space that brings not only new growth but also an entirely new dimension. As others did for us, we step in to walk alongside others, in prayer, in hope and in friendship when the blows come.

A sixth miscarriage and the loss of our teammate’s two-day old baby in the last 10 months have brought some of these themes to the surface. In a renewed sorrow we had hoped we had left behind and in an unbelievably painful road with our friends. And yet, there was a difference, as we observed in our hearts and lives the fruit borne from when this first began nine years ago. We have had a glimpse of what the Lord has been doing, and how he has changed us, permanently. And with bittersweetness, wonder and awe, we could thank God for what he allowed in our lives, even if a part of us would change it in a minute. We are stuck between those spaces, marveling at what he has done and grieving what is lost and find that God is quite comfortable to leave us right there.

Saying yes to God has taken us to places we never dreamed of, becoming people we would not have outright chosen. As Stephen once said, “Karis you are a sadder version of yourself” and I knew it was a compliment! Turning to God has allowed me to slowly, surely say yes to the story he has woven for me, and as I do, I get to admire his tenderness. When he exposed the line in the sand of my heart, he wanted to grow me in that space, even when he knew he was going to say yes to that deep heart longing. It doesn’t always work out like that, or in the timing or way we relate to. But to our deepest spaces and longing to be known and perfectly loved, he does say yes to us. And invites us into relationship with him--weaving a story beyond what we would believe.